Richard, you would be amazed at the heartwarming sentiments from your friends and colleagues in the papermaking community as they pay tribute to you. It is deeply touching to witness in print the almost magical effect you had on so many lives.
Your artistic nature was evidenced early on, but we had no inclination that your move to Japan in 1970 would transform you so profoundly. Your lifestyle, your spirituality, your inquisitiveness, and your energy, appeared to bring you immense joy. As your beautiful talent continued to blossom, it seemed to be linked to your love of nature and humankind.
I will always be thankful for the precious moments shared with you during your many visits to America, and my visits to Japan. At Haruko’s Memorial service in 1993 when you spoke about death as being compared to removing a tight shoe – that you must cross a wide river and when you reach the opposite shore you will find the golden slippers. Put them on and go into the golden land of brightness which is your true original self. Richard, is this true? I hope so.
Many fond memories of you, Ryoko, and your friends during visits to America continue to make me smile. I am profoundly grateful to Ryoko and the Sind family for their kindness and grace, particularly during the visit a couple of months before you left us. The hospitality and friendship that Maureen and I experienced was incredible. Sitting in your home in Tokyo with Ryoko and a small group of friends, with the sun setting outside, listening to you “teaching” us about “mindfulness” will always comfort me. I know why you so loved Japan! Thank you for being such a wonderful brother, teacher, and confidant.
The significance of your enormous contributions and all that you accomplished during your life awes me. You are forever in my heart. Be at ease! Your journey was your true home.
Your loving sister,
Mary Gustin
Hingham, MA